Hypermobile and Hurting? What Living in a Bendy Body Really Means
Maybe you've watched a street performer fold into a box that looks far too small for a human being. I was born into a hypermobile family, and hypermobility is often genetic. Some of my relatives have a hypermobile EDS diagnosis and others don't, but every one of us knows what it's like to live in a body that bends further than it should. Here at Sam Riddle Massage Therapy in Madison, Wisconsin, I treat hypermobile clients almost every day, including many with hypermobile Ehlers-Danlos syndrome. This post shares what I've learned from my own body, my family, and the people on my table.
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What Does It Mean to Be Hypermobile?
Most people hear "hypermobile" and think "flexible," and that's true as far as it goes. But flexibility is only half the story, and the other half is where the trouble starts for so many people in Madison and beyond.
Over-Flexible Means Under-Supported
To be hypermobile is to be over-flexible. Your tendons and ligaments are supposed to hold and stabilize your joints, but in hypermobile bodies the connective tissue doesn't do that job well. this often leads to chronic pain , or the feeling that something always hurts.
It Runs in the Family
Hypermobility is often genetic, so you may spot it in parents, siblings, or cousins. In my family, some of us carry a hypermobile EDS diagnosis and some don't, even though we share the same bendy traits.
The Perks Are Real, but Brief
Hypermobile folks tend to wrinkle less and age more gracefully, and we can pull off tricks other people's joints won't allow. The positives really end there, because hypermobility can hurt and can shape how we live our daily lives.
Hypermobile EDS: When Flexibility Becomes a Medical Condition
People with hypermobile Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (hEDS) take all of this to another level. A diagnosis comes from a physician, and I'm a massage therapist, not a doctor, but I see how this condition plays out in real bodies every week. If you've been searching for Ehlers Danlos syndrome answers in Madison, you are far from alone.
Hypermobile EDS Is More Than "Double-Jointed"
Hypermobile EDS is a diagnosed connective tissue condition, and it goes well beyond party tricks. It can affect daily life in ways that friends and even some healthcare providers don't always see.
Getting Diagnosed Is Often the Hardest Part
Getting to a diagnosis can be a real struggle, because the Beighton score used to screen for hypermobility is somewhat arbitrary and easy to interpret incorrectly. When my daughter, Veva, was assessed, our primary care physician had never even seen the test before and misdiagnosed her. She then met with a doctor who was fluent in EDS and was diagnosed promptly. Her reaction says it all: "Finally, someone who believes me and understands EDS." If you suspect hypermobile EDS, it's worth finding a physician who knows it well, and a Madison massage therapist who understands hypermobility can support you while you search.
Your Muscles Are Doing Two Jobs
When tendons and ligaments can't stabilize a joint, something else has to step in, and muscles are all we have left. The result is constant muscle tension and, often, chronic pain.
How Massage and Smart Habits Help Hypermobile Bodies
Being hypermobile doesn't mean you're doomed to a life of soreness. It does mean we often have to do things differently and may need additional support. Here's what I focus on in my Madison treatment room, plus a few tips you can use at home.
What People With hEDS Say About Massage
In a 2022 qualitative study of people with hypermobile EDS, participants named massage therapy among the most useful approaches for managing their symptoms. You can read the full study here. It matches what I see in my own practice: when muscles finally get to let go of their around-the-clock bracing job, people feel the difference.
Treating Tissue and Chasing Symmetry
Beyond treating sore tissue and trigger points, I pay close attention to body symmetry. Hypermobile folks do best when the body wears evenly, so I look for the side or joint that's carrying more than its share of the load.
Heat Before Stretching, Water Over Gravity
Stretching may not help as much as a heating pad, which can calm overworked muscles without asking a loose joint to move even further (check with your doctor first if heat isn't right for you). For exercise, choose options where gravity isn't involved, like swimming, water workouts, and biking. If you haven't noticed, I love exercising in the water, because it's far more forgiving on my joints and much less likely to injure me.
Conclusion
Being hypermobile isn't a flaw, but it does mean your body asks for a different kind of care. Whether you carry a hypermobile EDS diagnosis or you've simply always been the bendy one in the family, you can learn to work with your body so you hurt less and live more. If you're in Madison, Wisconsin, and want a therapist who treats hypermobile bodies every single day, I'd love to help. Reach out to Sam Riddle Massage Therapy, and let's get started.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is being hypermobile the same as having Ehlers-Danlos syndrome?
No. Many people are hypermobile without having Ehlers-Danlos syndrome. Hypermobile EDS (hEDS) is a specific diagnosis made by a physician.
Can massage help with hypermobile EDS?
Many people with hEDS report that massage helps them manage symptoms like muscle tension and pain. It isn't a cure, and it works best alongside your medical care.
Should I stretch if I'm hypermobile?
Stretching may not be as helpful as you'd expect, and heat is often a gentler option. Talk with your healthcare provider about what's right for your body.
Do you treat hypermobile clients in Madison?
Yes. At Sam Riddle Massage Therapy, I treat hypermobile clients nearly every day.
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